It is about the fact that everything in your life begins and ends with you and with you. It’s your life. No one else is responsible for your life. Your life is what you make of it.

There are of course influences from outside. But even there you always have the choice how you react to them. How do you go through life? What are your choices? Which junctions do you take? How do you react to what you are told and to what happens to you? What do you allow and what do you allow yourself?

From your childhood, you might remember the question: „How dare you?“ This question often leads to the fact that people then sit a lifetime in one thought – dungeon, an inner prison.

The important thing is that you know: there is only one person who can allow you to do anything: And that is you. If you don’t allow yourself to do it, it won’t happen.

If you have the courage to stand up for yourself, if you have the courage to stand up for your intuitions, for your inner feeling and to do what you feel inside, what is right for you, then first of all this is not a crime but it is your life. And your life begins and ends with you. And it is actually nobody’s business as long as you keep to the cosmic laws.

The other thing is: when you start to be yourself and live independently, when you start to determine your life, then you inspire other people to do so.

Here we come to the triplet that you might know from my BREAKTHROUGH training: I allow myself, I choose, I control.

The only difference between me and you is that I know I can do it. What do you know about yourself? Do you know you can do it? Do you know it works for you?

The excuses you find to justify WHY it doesn’t work for you are the reason that it really doesn’t work for you. The difference between success and failure is: knowing that it will become reality or that it will not become reality.

What do you know for yourself? What do you determine for yourself? That which you determine for yourself becomes your determination…

What we can learn from the trees

A very special friendship has existed between the trees and us humans for thousands of years. Already in the Vedas it says:

„The yogis left their homes and went to sit at the foot of the trees.
They found their true friends in the trees.“

And so it is that almost 2600 years ago Gautama Buddha sat down at the foot of a Bodhi tree to attain enlightenment.

So it is that in the Christian part of the world we celebrate Christmas with a Christmas tree, with a „Christmas night“ tree. The giving of presents takes place when all lights are lit and the star at the top of the tree sparkles. Only then the holy birth takes place, then the holy child, the Christ Child, is born.

What does this custom symbolize? It is the inner birth of yourself, the holy being that you are. By celebrating the birth of Jesus Christ, we celebrate this birth of ourselves. For when all the inner lights are lighted on our tree of life and the star shines, then this holy child will be born in us as well.

We have not only with the Buddhists the Bodhi tree, and with the yogis the trees at whose feet they sat and in Christianity the Christmas tree. In the Jewish tradition we have the Zohar, the tree of life. This is a very deep theme. In Taoism we have the knowledge that a person can let his chi flow like a tree (see Zhang Zhuang – standing like a tree). This is one of the strongest and most motionless exercises there is. If you stand like a tree, you also become strong like a tree.

What else does the tree show us?

That it is important to be well grounded. So not to lose your footing when we want to grow high. If we are well rooted and grounded, then we can also make progress, be successful, rise above ourselves.

The trees teach us, and they protect us. That is why we can also take care of them. A civilization that abolishes trees abolishes itself. Because trees are much more than „just“ oxygen providers. They are our brothers and sisters and energetically and spiritually of great importance for the growth of us humans.

Thank you very much for your comments, thank you very much for your time, I will see you in the next video,
Aditya Novotny

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